You may have found this jacket not to be very warm because it's designed to protect against wind/snow/rain while climbing or other physical exertion; if a jacket is too warm it will make you sweat while you're exerting yourself. You should consider this jacket a shell layer (hence the "soft shell"), and wear a fleece or down sweater under it to add warmth when you stop moving. If you don't like yours, though, I'm happy to take it off your hands for small money ;)